Monday, 24 December 2018

The Power of IMAGINATION

Imagination is the ability to form a mental image of something that is not perceived through the five senses. It is the ability of the mind to build mental scenes, objects or events that do not exist, are not present, or have happened in the past. Everyone possesses a certain degree of imagination ability. The imagination manifests in various degrees in various people. In some, it is highly developed, and in others, it manifests in a weaker form.

Imagination makes it possible to experience a whole world inside the mind. It gives the ability to look at any situation from a different point of view and to mentally explore the past and the future. This ability manifests in various forms, one of which is daydreaming. Though too much idle daydreaming may make one impractical, a certain degree daydreaming, while not being engaged in something that requires attention, provides temporary happiness, calmness, and relief from stress. In your imagination, you can travel anywhere at the speed of light, without any obstacles. It can make you feel free, though temporarily, and only in the mind, from tasks, difficulties and unpleasant circumstances.

Imagination is not limited only to seeing pictures in the mind. It includes all the five senses and feelings. One can imagine a sound, taste, smell, a physical sensation or a feeling or emotion. For some people it is easier to see mental pictures, others find it easier to imagine a feeling, and some are more comfortable imagining the sensation of one of the five senses. Training of the imagination gives the ability to combine all the senses. A developed and strong imagination does not make you a daydreamer and impractical. On the contrary, it strengthens your creative abilities and is a great tool for recreating and remodeling your world and life.

This is a wonderful power that can change your whole life. It is used extensively in magic, creative visualization, and affirmations. It is the creator of circumstances and events. When you know how to work with it, you can make your hearts' desires come true. Imagination has a great role and value in each one's life. It is much more than just idle daydreaming. We all use it, whether consciously or unconsciously, in most of our daily affairs. We use our imagination whenever we plan a party, a trip, our work or a meeting.

Everything you can imagine is REAL.


Imagination is a creative power that is necessary for inventing an instrument, designing a dress or a house, painting a picture or writing a book. The creative power of imagination has an important role in the achievement of success in any field. What we imagine with faith and feelings comes into being. It is an important ingredient of creative visualization, positive thinking, and affirmations. Visualizing an object or a situation, and repeating often this mental image, attracts the object or situation we visualize into our lives. This opens for us new, vast and fascinating opportunities. This means that we should think only in a positive manner about our desires, otherwise, we might attract into our lives events, situations and people that we don't really want. This is actually what most of us do because we don't use the power of imagination correctly.

If you do not recognize the importance of the power of the imagination, and let it run riot, your life may not be as happy and successful as you would have wanted it to be. Lack of understanding of the power of the imagination is responsible for the suffering, incompetence, difficulties, failures and unhappiness people experience. For some reason, most people are inclined to think in a negative way. They do not expect success. They expect the worst, and when they fail, they believe that fate is against them. This attitude can be changed, and then life will improve accordingly.

Understanding, how to use your imagination correctly, and putting this knowledge into practice, for your own and others' benefit, will put you on the golden path to success, satisfaction, and happiness.

Thursday, 13 December 2018

Inferiority Charade

One of the greatest barriers to accomplishments and to happiness is the feeling of inferiority. How many of us fail to try new things because we're afraid we don't have the ability to succeed? How many of us imagine, usually falsely, that others have a low opinion of us? How many of us suffer immensely from self-doubt and feelings of inadequacy? The answer to all these questions is that far too many of us suffer from such feelings.

Some of these feelings come from criticism that we have experienced from others in the past. Some people seem to think that the only way to build themselves up is to go around tearing others down. If we have encountered many of these people, we may have allowed the often-unjust criticism to affect our judgment of ourselves and our abilities. Nothing hinders achievement and accomplishment like feeling inferior and acting without confidence. Unfortunately, most feelings of inferiority and lack of confidence come from a lifetime of other people telling us that we can’t or that we aren’t good enough.

The truth is that once you realize that these issues come from tiny little comments made by others, they seem pretty silly, and changing course becomes easy. If overcoming your feelings of inferiority is a process, then step one is figuring out where these feelings come from and understanding why it’s silly to let anyone make you feel a certain way. Next time someone tries to make you feel inferior, you’re probably going to get upset. But at some point, while you’re processing the insult, you’re going to remember this article. Then, I want you to stop, breathe, and consider what that insult really is.

No One Can Make You Feel Inferior Without Your Consent


On one level, the insult is simply a string of words, and words can’t affect you. You can choose not to assign any meaning to those words, and avoid feeling blue all together. On the second level, insults are usually words of sad and hurt people. Ask yourself: what kind of barrier is this person trying to put up by acting in this way? Is he trying to protect his own insecurities and faults? The answer is almost certainly ‘yes’. Real winners and people with real confidence don’t put people down; they pull them up.

Mentally strong people can prevent so much grief and are ready to accomplish so much more because they understand the criticism for what it is: a sad and lonely person’s reflection of themselves. Not only do strong people let insults slide off, but they respond by being kind-hearted and helping to lift the bully up – attempting to not only keep themselves above water but to pull others up with them as well.

In doing so, we must be careful not to go from one extreme to another. Just as we do not want to feel inferior to others, we must guard against the tendency to sometimes feel superior to others. We must make the most of our abilities to accomplish whatever we can for both ourselves and our fellow human beings. Most of us can accomplish so much more than we think we can if we can just maintain a positive attitude about ourselves, and life, in general. But feelings of inferiority can get in the way and diminish our abilities. As Eleanor Roosevelt said, we must always remember that no one can make us feel inferior without our consent. We should never consent to feel inferior because we are not inferior. We are all important individuals with our own set of unique talents.

Monday, 10 December 2018

Have COURAGE to be DIFFERENT !

A characteristic that many brilliant thinkers and extraordinarily successful people have in common is their courage to think different and to view things from another perspective than the vast majority of people. Their willingness to forge an own opinion and to express their own opinions and thoughts caused some people a lot of trouble in their lives and didn’t increase their overall popularity, nevertheless, it also enabled some people to come up with solutions for problems no one else could find, invent seemingly impossible things, provide unique services and products no one else offered yet and their willingness to invest in markets that others didn’t even know exist.

What made these some people so successful in life was the fact that they didn’t blindly follow the masses and didn’t do what everyone else was doing, just because everyone else was doing it. Their courage to be different allowed them to forge an own opinion, "Think outside the box" and to make their own decisions, without negative interferences by “Experts” and recent trends everyone else was following. Many outstanding thinkers had the courage to be different and did not shy away from expressing their opinion.

Sometimes in life, we have to make a decision; the decision to follow where our heart leads us to or to continue walking on a frightening path that leads us to a destination we don’t want to be; a path that lets us become someone we don’t want to be. I’ve been on misleading paths as well, and the decision to leave these paths can be very painful and strength-sapping, but it also gives you the freedom to start doing what you love to do, following the things you are interested in and to discover what you always wanted to discover in life. There is nothing wrong about following your heart rather than forcing yourself to walk a predetermined path that isn’t truly yours, where your heart is not involved. Sometimes you just have to have the courage to become a firefighter, if that is what your real ambition is. You weren’t born to become what others want you to be. You’re born to live the life you want to live and become who you want to become.

Be different and make a difference


You will always have a choice in life. It’s the choice to accept the status quo, the choice to accept that the earth is a plate or to find the truth by investigating things on your own, forging your own opinion. You always have the choice to be unique or to be just a part of a mass. Make an inception. Think in ways no one else dares to think and consider to approach problems from another perspective and in ways not even you thought about before.

Question the things people present as the facts. Scrutinize decisions and come to your own solution and opinion. Search for the reasons things are done and discover the “why” ‘s behind your and other people’s actions. Question your decisions and thoughts and “update” them if you believe them to be wrong. Don’t be so biased to persist in your opinion even if you were proved to be wrong. We owe very discovery, invention, breakthrough and the whole progress of your countries and the world we are living into the people who stood up raised their voices and had the courage to be different and to think different. The decision between being different and following the masses is the decision between making a difference to the world or being like anyone else.

Sunday, 2 December 2018

You're not late, nor early - There is no recipe to Time

In today's fast-paced world, we are all in a hurry. In a hurry to get to where we are going, in a hurry to get successful, in a hurry to get things done. We get dejected when things don't happen our way when results are not achieved instantly. It's a race and we are scared of being left behind. The age of achievement has decreased. Fifteen-year-olds are developing codes and selling websites. People are doing too much in too little time. That too only some people and that is scaring the hell out of us. If at 25, you are still slogging it out in a 9-to-6 job, you feel worthless. Time is running out; the world is running past you and you…you find yourself struggling to even get up from the bed.

Most of us do not know that everyone works based on their own “Time Zone”. Some people around us might seem to go ahead and be successful in their early life while they are also others might seem to be behind us without our knowledge. Isn’t that different countries in different time zones? What does this mean to every one of us? It means all of our work based on our DNA or date/time of birth! Our date/time of birth determines largely who we are and what we do. Our DNA has our main characteristics, namely strengths and weaknesses. Exposing each of us in a different environment with different people will eventually lead us to different time zones of work, and lead us to different opportunities and threats.

Relax. Take a deep breath. Don't compare yourself with others. The world is full of all kinds of people – those who get successful early in life and those who do later. 
Early success doesn't mean a happy life. You could open a company at 25, you could also go bankrupt at 30 if the company dissolves. You could find success at 40, and perhaps you'd be more well-equipped to handle it then. Whatever happens, happens for a reason. Everyone is running their own race in their own time. We don’t have to envy them since they’re in their time zone and we are in ours!

"You are unique, don't compare yourself to others."


Spend your time polishing your personality, acquiring new skills, learning a new language – create the person you want to be in the future. Create the personality that will match your success. Work towards your goal at your own pace. Everybody has their own timeline. What if you are meant to do something worthwhile in some years when you are older and wiser, but you were too busy feeling bad about yourself and drowning your woes in alcohol. Imagine the regret. Opportunities never cease to come. "If today is not your day, it could be tomorrow." Don't stop living your life just because it isn't happening.

Once we are aware of who we are and what we do; what are our strengths and weaknesses; opportunities and threats; we will be able to do well, feel happy and fulfilled! LIFE is about aiming at the right moment to ACT! So, stay CALM and RELAX. You’re not LATE and You’re not EARLY, You’re very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE!

Monday, 26 November 2018

SATISFIED ! Are You ?

If you feel you have a purpose in your life and what you do every day gives you satisfaction then you are lucky. Do you feel something is missing from your life and your potential is unfulfilled? Chances are there are many things which cause you to feel less than satisfied with where you are now. If you stop to think for a moment I bet you could list many things which make you feel less than satisfied with your life but this is a question of your attitude. Everyone could make such a list and the result would be a negative feeling and unhappiness. If you approach your life looking at it from what is missing or what could be better then you will be unhappy and dissatisfied.

Life satisfaction does not come from money nor material things. It comes from what you do and how you use what you have. It comes from a positive view of what is right in your life now. Of course, things can always be improved but you should try to enjoy your achievements so far. If you always look at solving problems you will never be satisfied until everything is how you want it to be and that will never happen. Only you can truly answer the question “what will make you satisfied with your life ? ”

Let me explain. If you are not happy then you may, like I did, fight everything and refuse to accept the reality of your situation. For example, if you don’t like where you live you can complain constantly and learn to hate this. This will only make you angry and powerless. Your self-esteem will be affected negatively because the more you complain and hate where you live the worse you will feel about yourself and your life. It is far more constructive to stop fighting against everything you don’t like because that uses so much of your energy negatively, creates unhappiness and low self-esteem.

So what is the alternative to fighting? It is accepting the reality of your life as it is now and being prepared to take a step back in order to think about what you can and cannot change. Accepting everything is not what I am suggesting but there are some things you have to accept and others you don’t. Maybe your acceptance is temporary and you should change your attitude so that you can live your life now more happily until you can change things as you want.

Fighting is not positive. It is aggressive and brings with it anger and negative emotions. What you want is to become happier and more satisfied so you are looking for a positive change. Building a better life comes from being positive and taking steps to move closer to what you want. Accepting things as they are now is a first and important step. Accepting that it may take time to get where you want to go is another important thing to do. Accepting who you are is also very important.

Even if your life seems intolerable to you right now, instead of fighting it why not try to work with it and use what you have now? If you cannot change things immediately for the better, why not try to like what you have now? What I am trying to say here is that you CAN be happy and satisfied with your life right now. You shouldn’t put off your happiness until you get exactly what you want. If you do that you will never be happy.

Live for the journey, not the destination!


Learn from your mistakes and problems and see them as opportunities to improve. Make peace with your life and with who you are, get clear about the changes you’d like to make and then work out how you will move forward. Make sure that you try to see the joy in every day and that even if everything is not perfect, there are always things to be happy about.

Thursday, 16 August 2018

Remebrance of Bharat Ratna Atal Bihari Vajpayee

मौत खड़ी थी उनके सर, इसी इंतजार में
की कब ले जाएं उनकी साँसे, अपने हिंदुस्तान से
*कह दिए लेकिन वो भी*
ना झूकेगा ध्वज मेरे वतन का
15 अगस्त के अवसर पर,
तू ठहर इंतजार कर ,
लहराने दे बुलंद इसे, मैं एक दिन और लड़ूंगा
मौत तेरे आलम से|

मंजूर नही था कभी उन्हें
झुके तिंरगा स्वतंत्रता के अवसर पर। 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Thursday, 12 July 2018

Generation Gap: A Psychological Prejudice ?

"GENERATION GAP" What is it? How it goes? A simple way to deal will it. There may be many schools of thoughts by the writers or orators depending on the generation they are heading on but a practical one is here. The difference in opinions, values, attitudes, and lifestyle among people of different ages is called 'generation gap'. Due to these differences, people belonging to different generations find themselves unable to relate to each other.

This communication gap between successive generations is not a new phenomenon. Parents and children across the world have been facing this problem. Due to fast-paced modern lifestyles, parents and children hardly find time together. The children, thus unable to express their thoughts and ideas to their parents, turn to friends for advice who are as inexperienced as they are.

Today's children are born into a competitive world and have the struggle to get everything. Many a time their true potential gets overshadowed in the rat race. Parents- burdened by the expectations of the society- end up forcing certain subjects and careers and lives that their parents have chosen for them, children are left lost and confused.

Parents, on the other hand, feel that in this rapidly changing society where everyone is so self-centered, it is their duty to protect their children. Parents tend to feel that their children require guidance. This cannot be denied. But their constant monitoring makes children feel oppressed and they tend to turn rebellious.

It is essential for parents to talk to their children and treat them as individuals. To be forever treated as a child can be irritating and sometimes even humiliating. Children, in turn, must reciprocate with due respect and attention. Matters such as career, lifestyle and sensitive issues like freedom of choice of friends must be dealt with carefully and with maturity.

Love and understanding are the best antidotes to this ever-widening generation gap. Only then will children look up to their parents and parents will not be burdened with their guilt for not being there for their children in their hour of need. In this way generation gap can at least be narrowed, if not completely filled.

Tuesday, 3 July 2018

Law of Karma

What is Karma? Karma is the Sanskrit word for action. It is equivalent to Newton’s law of every action must have an equal and opposite reaction. When we think, speak or act we initiate a force that will react accordingly. This returning force may be modified, changed or suspended, but most people will not be able to eradicate it.

“Avashyameva bhoktavyam kritam karma shubhaashubham” 


The above verse means whatever deeds we perform, whether good or bad, we have to certainly bear the fruits of the same.

Keeping the above verse in mind we all can recall a very famous English phrase taught to us in our childhoods that what you sow is what you reap but still whenever we humans face tough times in life we always blame God for it. This is because in our childhoods we were also loaded with the concept that whatever takes place on this earth is with the consent of God.

It is imperative for all of us to understand the demarcation between the two beliefs which is being held by people from ages. Let's take an example, when we leave for the office, the decision regarding which dress to wear, or what colour, which way to take to the office, whether to use a car or public transport etc. is decided by whom? It is decided by us. Similarly, our every action is decided by us through the karmas and hence the result will also be faced by us.

Why we worship God? Many people live in the belief that worshiping him will change their destiny but the fact is that we write our own destinies by the way of karmas we perform. We worship God to give us strength and peace of mind to face all grueling situations of life. The supreme power God gives us an understanding of good and bad deeds to perform but he never decides our karmas. If god had the powers to decide our destiny, just like any parent, he would never write poverty, sadness, death, separation, crime etc in any of his child’s destiny, rather he would fill our lives with happiness, prosperity, good health, fabulous luck etc.

Till today I have not done injustice to anyone then why I am facing such an awful situation in my life? I know this would be the next question in your mind post reading the above paragraph. The karmas performed by every human follows him until his death and even in his next life. Karmas are just like a ball, once thrown will hit the wall and come back to you. The travel time differs. Sometimes the ball comes back in a minute, sometimes hours, sometimes months, sometimes years and sometimes it takes many lives (re-births). You might be a gem of a person in this life but the outcomes of your past deeds in last life will surely come back to you.

Don’t blame God for your destiny rather do right karmas to change your destiny. This is the law of karma and an obscure fact of life for many people in the world. Remember whatever you give to the world, will come back to you.

Thursday, 21 June 2018

Suicidal Ideation

You're not alone; many of us have or had suicidal thoughts at some point in our lives. Feeling suicidal is not a character defect, and it doesn't mean that you are crazy, or weak, or flawed. It only means that you have more pain than you can cope with right now. This pain seems overwhelming and permanent at the moment. But with time and support, you can overcome your problems and the pain and suicidal feelings will pass.

Suicidal thoughts, or suicidal ideation, means thinking about or planning suicide. Thoughts can range from a detailed plan to a fleeting consideration. It does not include the final act of suicide. Suicidal thoughts are common, and many people experience them when they are undergoing stress or experiencing depression. In most cases, these are temporary and can be treated, but in some cases, they place the individual at risk for attempting or completing suicide. Most people who experience suicidal ideation do not carry it through, although some may make suicide attempts.

Many kinds of emotional pain can lead to thoughts of suicide. The reasons for this pain are unique to each one of us, and the ability to cope with the pain differs from person to person. We are all different. There are, however, some common causes that may lead us to experience suicidal thoughts and feelings. 
anyone who has suicidal thoughts should ask for help. If a loved one is having these thoughts, measures should be taken to help and protect them.

If you are unable to think of solutions other than suicide, it is not that other solutions don’t exist,
but rather that you are currently unable to see them. The intense emotional pain that you’re experiencing right now can distort your thinking so it becomes harder to see possible solutions to problems or to connect with those who can offer support. Counselors, friends or loved ones can help you to see solutions that otherwise may not be apparent to you. Give them a chance to help.

Even if your suicidal thoughts and feelings have subsided, get help for yourself. Experiencing that sort of emotional pain is itself a traumatizing experience. Finding a support can be very helpful in decreasing the chances that you will feel suicidal again in the future. Remember that while it may seem as if these suicidal thoughts and feelings will never end, this is never a permanent condition. You WILL feel better again. In the meantime, there are some ways to help cope with your suicidal thoughts and feelings-

  • Identify triggers or situations that lead to feelings of despair or generate suicidal thoughts, such as an anniversary of a loss, alcohol, or stress from relationships. Find ways to avoid these places, people, or situations.
  • Take care of yourself. Eat right, don’t skip meals, and get plenty of sleep. Exercise is also key: it releases endorphins, relieves stress, and promotes emotional well-being.
  • Build your support network. Surround yourself with positive influences and people who make you feel good about yourself. The more you’re invested in other people and your community, the more you have to lose—which will help you stay positive and on the recovery track.
  • Develop new activities and interests. Find new hobbies, volunteer activities, or work that gives you a sense of meaning and purpose. When you’re doing things you find fulfilling, you’ll feel better about yourself and feelings of despair are less likely to return.
  • Learn to deal with stress in a healthy way. Find healthy ways to keep your stress levels in check, including exercising, meditating, using sensory strategies to relax, practicing simple breathing exercises, and challenging self-defeating thoughts.
Although it might seem as if your pain and unhappiness will never end, it is important to realize that crises are usually temporary. Solutions are often found, feelings change, unexpected positive events occur. Remember: suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Give yourself the time necessary for things to change and the pain to subside.

Friday, 8 June 2018

Blessing In Disguise

Blessing is a word which is used commonly by people meaning, a positive word containing hopes and wishes for betterment. Blessing in disguise is something that seems bad at the beginning but turns out to be beneficial at the end. For example, if a rich man makes huge losses in his business and has to leave his home, car and every other comfortable and luxurious things he had once possessed. This situation turned him into a poor man but gradually the man understands his mistakes done in business and he comes up with a new idea that brings more money than before in his business and he now shifts in a bigger home with greater facilities.

This situation at first might seem difficult for someone living in the seventh heaven to felling rock bottom but later on, it turned out a blessing in disguise. The man wouldn’t have learned or got an idea to make his life bigger if the mistake was not made in first hand.

Poverty teaches a man many important lessons of life. When a man becomes poor his friends and relative who seemed to be very close to him leaves him. So whoever will support him and believe in him even in his bad days, they will be his friend in true essence. In this way, the man gets a chance to know who his real friends are. Although blessing in disguise is not always associated with poverty, it can be anything. Such as you missed your flight and ultimately found out the flight met an accident. Whatever seems to us as bitter trials are often Blessing in Disguise.

The stories of great personalities such as J.K Rowling, Oprah, Will Smith, etc. are the example of blessing in disguise. These people were not born with silver spoon or achieve success in one single day; they underwent loads of accidents and hardship before becoming a success. Blessing in disguise is serendipity. It is a form of sweet accident that results in positive consequences. Now you must be thinking how can accidents be positive? Well in some cases it can be. Plus positivity lies in the eyes of the beholder if one continues to see positive in anything he will end up making his life heaven. “Everything happens for your own good”. Careful scrutiny of any situation will make you discover the hidden blessing.

This is the reason our forefathers always asked us to look for the positive side of everything and never to curse any situation or event. Have faith take any hardship or complexity of your life as a challenge and believe that something better will come out of it.

“When you focus on being a blessing, God makes sure that you are always blessed in abundance”

Tuesday, 5 June 2018

Self Acceptance - What it is really about?

We hear so much about self-acceptance from people, who study or teach personal growth methods. What is self-acceptance? Does it mean accepting your weaknesses or negative habits and doing nothing about them? Does it mean accepting your behavior, attitude, and lifestyle, and doing nothing to change and improve?
It is so easy to give in to laziness and to find excuses for leaving everything as it is. Accepting your behavior and weaknesses, and doing nothing to improve, is not the right kind of self-acceptance. It does not contribute to real progress and improvement.
The term self-acceptance seems not to be well explained and well understood. Accepting yourself as you are is only the first step. It helps you realize your good, and not so good qualities, and can alleviate feelings of guilt, lack of self-esteem and unhappiness.
Self-acceptance does not mean that you accept what you are and do nothing to change and improve. It does not mean accepting your fate and life as it is.
Becoming aware and acknowledging your behavior, habits and your personality, and not being afraid to look at yourself as you are, is an important step to self-acceptance. When you accept yourself as you are, you put yourself in a better position to begin improving yourself. It is not an excuse for saying, "This is what I am. I accept myself as I am. I accept my character, my failings and my fate, and this how it is. I can do nothing about it."
Knowing yourself affords you the possibility to see what you can do to improve yourself and your life. Improvement requires that you understand and acknowledge your character and habits, stop comparing yourself and your achievements to others, and acknowledging your skills or the lack of them. This will bring some sort of inner peace, lightness, and happiness, like getting rid of a burden.
Remember, acknowledging your good and bad habits and traits of character can alleviate feelings of dissatisfaction, anger, resentment or unhappiness, but it is not an excuse for staying as you are, it is only the first step on the road to improvement and empowerment.

"Learning to love yourself for who are you, is SELF ACCEPTANCE  "

Sunday, 20 May 2018

Inner Changes create Outer Changes


The quality of your life depends to a large extent on the quality of your emotional and mental life. If you are lazy, worry too much, and afraid to try new things, you stick to the same spot. If you are not afraid to change your thinking patterns, your life will soon change accordingly. Your habitual thoughts, and the content of your subconscious mind, determine your behavior and actions.

When you change the way you feel and think about things, and the way you react to people and situations, your actions and behavior change accordingly. These changes you create within are reflected in your demeanor.

\If you are the worrying type, you are probably afraid of changes, and prefer to stick to the same kind of life that you know well. You see other people improving their life and achieving success, but you do not take forward steps that you might wish to, due to doubts and fears. If you do nothing about your thoughts, doubts and fears, you will always stay where you are.

If you do not change your thinking patterns, and cannot visualize your life differently from how it is now, you will go on living the same kind of life, day after day. It might never occur to you that you can visualize a different, improved reality.

In this situation, your thinking pattern - your mindset, limits you. You constantly see in your mind's eye the same day-to-day reality, and consequently, your conscious and subconscious mind keeps being programmed to see and expect the same reality every day and to create, attract and experience the same kind of experiences and activities.

"Outer changes always begin with the Inner Change of ATTITUDE."

Suppose you realize that your outer reality is shaped to a great extent by your inner world. This realization will make you believe that you can make changes in your life, and you will start envisioning the kind of life you want to live.

If you keep thinking and visualizing a different and better kind of life, soon, these thoughts will sink into your subconscious mind and would motivate, inspire and energize you to take action in this direction.

Friday, 2 February 2018

Poem: Session near The SEA...

To sit in silence, watch the waves
Hear the surf, is to appreciate
Every breath and heartbeat of self
Which says, yes YOU CAN DO IT.

Lets dance with the waves
In Elopement of sea
Let the singing of water
Make the soul free..

Decide the challenges you wanna make;
Dreams are made up of, sand and waves.
The sea is everything all want to be,
Young, mysterious, wild and free.

To some its just water, to me its Inspiration,
Which brings me the eternal joy of sensation.

Sometimes you just need an adventure to cleanse,
The bitter taste of life from your soul and sin.

I believe in the sea  curing all the bad mood,
I believe in waves wiping of worries so good.
I believe in sea shells bringing the good luck,
I believe in roar of waves, which make schmuck.

Lets go somewhere where the stars meet the sea,
Coz It make us small, but set us free.

Tuesday, 16 January 2018

UNIQUENESS : A Bliss

From the very beginning, you are being told to compare yourself with others. This is the greatest disease; it is like cancer that goes on destroying your very soul because each individual is unique, and the comparison is not possible. You are obligated to understand that you are unique in the world. There has never been anyone like you because, if there were, there would be no need for you to exist. You are an utterly new thing in creation. Your life goal is to realize this uniqueness.

I believe a unique core self is born into every human being; the result of millennia of environment and heredity combined in an unpredictable way that could never happen before or again. Trusting your individual uniqueness challenges you to lay yourself open. Being the best is great, it means you're number one. But being unique is greater because you're the only one. Being your own unique self is pure beauty.


Think what a remarkable, unduplicatable, and miraculous thing it is to be you! Of all the people who have come and gone on the earth, since the beginning of time, not ONE of them is like YOU! No one who has ever lived or is to come has had your combination of abilities, talents, appearance, friends, acquaintances, burdens, sorrows and opportunities.

No one’s hair grows exactly the way yours does. No one’s fingerprints are like yours. No one has the same combination of secret inside jokes and family expressions that you know. The few people who laugh at all the same things you do, don’t sneeze the way you do. No one prays about exactly the same concerns as you do. No one is loved by the same combination of people that love you- NO ONE!

No one before, no one to come. YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY UNIQUE!

Enjoy that uniqueness. You do not have to pretend in order to seem more like someone else. You weren’t meant to be like someone else. You do not have to lie to conceal the parts of you that are not like what you see in anyone else.

You were meant to be different. Nowhere even in all of history will the same things be going on in anyone’s mind, soul and spirit as are going on in yours right now. If you did not exist, there would be a hole in creation, a gap in history, something missing from the plan for humankind. Treasure your uniqueness. It is a gift given only to you, enjoy it and share it!

No one can reach out to others in the same way that you can. No one can speak your words. No one can convey your meanings. No one can comfort with your kind of comfort. No one can bring your kind of understanding to another person.

No one can be cheerful and light-hearted and joyous in your way. No one can smile your smile. No one else can bring the whole unique impact of you to another human being. Share your uniqueness, Let it be free to flow out among your family and friends and people you meet in the rush and clutter of living wherever you are. That gift of yourself was given you to enjoy and share. Give yourself away! 

See it! Receive it! Let it tickle you! Let it Inform you and nudge you and inspire you! YOU ARE UNIQUE! That’s what they want of you. 

Tuesday, 2 January 2018

Prosperity Mindset Building...

In order to achieve your goals and attain new levels of success, put your imagination to work. Get into the habit of visualizing your goals as if they are already happening. Talk to yourself as if you are already achieving that success that up until now you've only dreamed of.

One of the often overlooked keys to making visualization and affirmations work is the feelings involved. Imagining success without mixing in a whole lot of positive feeling is nothing more than a mental exercise. But fuel your visualization and affirmations with faith, gratitude, passion, or excitement and suddenly you have a powerful life changing tool. That tool is simply the imagination.

Many of us are in the habit of using imagination, thoughts, and feelings to produce negative results. Often times we aren't even conscious of doing it. Much of what's wrong with our lives have been directly created by our own negative use of the imagination, backed with negative feelings. From here on out, when you catch yourself using the imagination negatively, stop yourself and start to visualize and affirm the positive. Back it with positive feelings, and you are on your way to creating a compelling future.

Keep doing it if even you don't think anything is happening. Sometimes the magic may happen overnight, but it's not uncommon for it to take weeks or months to start happening. Realize also, that it often comes a piece at a time. It can be incredibly exhilarating to watch the pieces fall into place day after day.

Make it in the present moment. It's important to start thinking about success and goals in the here and now. When you always think of success as something in the future, then it is always something that you don't have. Think of success as something that is happening right now. When you are visualizing the success you want, try to get into it so much that it feels like it's really happening.

Make your goals big, but not too big. Visualizing something that is so big that it seems downright impossible, is not going to get you anywhere. You don't want to be constantly wrestling with thoughts that are counterproductive, such as "There is no way on earth that's going to happen." Start with something that seems possible and attainable so that negative imagination in the form of doubt can be kept to a minimum.

It's important to develop the habit of awareness in regard to negative thinking because using the imagination begets results whether we use it negatively or positively. The less negative resistance that your positive use of imagination has, the better your results will be.

Don't worry if sometimes you just can't fight off that bad mood. Nobody is positive all the time. The key is to make the time an energy you spend on the positive, far outweigh that of the negative. Remember to imagine success, fuel it with positive feelings, and keep on doing it until it becomes a habit. Don't underestimate the most powerful success tool in your arsenal, the imagination.

Wish You a very Happy New Year...